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Wednesday
12
January
Funeral Service
9:00 am
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
Punarjanm Funeral Services
752 Mountain Blvd.
Watchung, New Jersey, United States
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Wednesday, July 24, 2024
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Anassa Miller posted a condolence
Thursday, December 14, 2023
I just learned about Dr. Patels passing. I wasn’t expecting that. Dr. Patel was a GREAT doctor. He was amazing, extremely skilled, compassionate and dedicated. I only have nice things to say about him. He will be missed and I will probably never allow anyone else to touch my eyes. Condolences to the family. He left a wonderful Legacy.
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Noreen Tierney posted a condolence
Thursday, July 28, 2022
“Lives of great men all remind us we can make our lives sublime, And, departing, leave behind us footprints on the sands of time” - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
(From Noreen Tierney one of Dr. Patel’s patients from Jackson Heights) I just found out about his passing and I’m shocked he was a sweetheart class personified and a wonderful human being he will be missed RIP
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Stephanie Metz lit a candle
Monday, June 27, 2022
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Stephanie Metz lit a candle
Saturday, May 28, 2022
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Happy Birthday. I think of you still in disbelief that you are no longer a text or phone call away... <3
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David lit a candle
Saturday, May 7, 2022
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Its so rare for someone to be the smartest person in the room and also the kindest. Neil was both. Neil was a rare doctor who was also a humanist and a true renaissance man. He treated me when he was working in Goshen NY and for many years I drove 3 hours to the Bronx as I only trusted him with my eyes. We developed a friendship and I deeply valued his opinions and the hours we spent talking. His interest in languages, art, business, and life in general and his great spirit were so unique and he was a wonderful person to confide in or get great opinions from. I went online today to get the address to refer a friend to his care and was planning to text him when I saw the heartbreaking news. Such a loss for medicine, NYC, and the world. I will never forget his manners, intelligence, and humble charm. He literally saved my vision but, even more, he touched my life and restored my faith in doctors. Much love and condolences to his family friends patients and all who will miss him.
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Huong Dang posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, April 11, 2022
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I only learned this shocking news 3 days ago. I'm devastated. We used to laugh so much together like kids and I got to see many sides of him. To me, Neil is my best friend, my brother, my father figure, and my teacher. He's definitely the type people look up to and wants to keep in their close circle so they can become better. God sent him to me to teach me about true love, compassion, humility, contribution and never giving up. My deep condolence to Neil's family. In my eyes and I believe many others, he lived a legendary life.
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Jovahn Howard lit a candle
Monday, April 4, 2022
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Sincerely from Jovahn Howard.
Farewell my Friend. May your Family and Friends take Hope that we will See and Experience you again. You may not know that I Love you like a brother in high regards in my Mind and Heart. THROUGH THE GRACE OF ALMIGHTY GOD you helped Save my Vision and help assuage a whirlwind of fears&panic with your warm, witty, Caring, and highly Knowledgeable being. You are a Genius dear brother.
I have such an epic story of how we endeavored on our journey and I'd be willing to recount the tale to anybody who wanted to listen. In closing brother let me say I Smile when I think of you. Travel Well.
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Elizabeth Lee posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 29, 2022
I just learned of Dr. Patel's passing, and I am devastated. He cared for me for many years. He was working in upstate when I first met him. He was so good, and so smart and so handsome. I am so sorry to his friends and family. I will sorely miss seeing him and being in his care. with love and sadness, Elizabeth Lee
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Maria Cruz posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 29, 2022
My dad was Dr. Patel’s patient. He was great and He will be missed. RIP
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Steven Chinn posted a condolence
Monday, March 28, 2022
As a patient of Dr Patel, I found him to be caring and obviously effective and skilled. Obviously I was shocked and I wish all Dr Patel’s family my sincere condolences
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Deborah Dip lit a candle
Thursday, March 24, 2022
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Deepest condolences to friends and family. A great light has gone out on this side. May his light be carried on through all who had the honor to be touched by his caring heart. He performed three surgeries on my eye but what I will remember most was that he became part of your life & cared just as much about what was going on with a true genuine warmth and concern, always asking how can I help? He will be greatly missed. Love & prayers. Deborah Dip & family
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Gwendolyn White posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 23, 2022
My heartfelt condolences to the family, friends, associates and patients of Dr. Neil Patel. He made life's view brighter for many. My cateract and eye laser surgery was a memorable experience. I laughed and smiled through the entired process, thanks to Dr Patel's wonderful sense of humor. I was so looking forward to him coming to see the Central Park Dance Skaters this Spring/Summer.
Peace and Light be unto all who knew him~
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Ruth Fernandez posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 22, 2022
My father was a patient of Dr. Patel. He was kind and had such patience. My condolences to his family and may be forever RIP
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Lorraine Furse posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, March 11, 2022
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He will never be forgotten
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Lorraine furse lit a candle
Thursday, March 10, 2022
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Family have MY condolences I was one of his patient
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Stephanie lit a candle
Wednesday, February 23, 2022
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Clarisel Gonzalez posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, February 10, 2022
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Sorry about the great loss of Dr. Neil Patel. I am happy he was my retina specialist and am forever grateful. I was referred by Dr. Pisacano as an emergency case to Dr. Patel's Bronx office a few years ago. He helped save my vision, and that is a real gift. I am saddened that my next appointment with my retina specialist will not be with Dr. Patel. May Dr. Patel rest in peace. He is missed.
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Jeff Serravezza posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, February 6, 2022
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I rowed crew with Neil at Columbia. His sense of humor always kept us in stitches. His support and kindness were what kept us a team even when we struggled. He will be missed, but always fondly remembered for the influence and impression he left on all our lives.
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Angelica Dominguez posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 2, 2022
My grandmother was a patient of his, and was always so happy to go and see him. She loved his kindness and ability to help her see better. My condolences to his family. He will always be remembered in our hearts.
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Pat posted a condolence
Monday, January 31, 2022
Wow, my condolences to the Patel family. I called the appointment line to make an appointment and asked to see Dr. Patel and came across the sad news. My dad was one of his first patients at the Bronx office. My dad and Dr. Patel would call each other compadres. My dad loved him. We are very very sad. Our condolences. May he Rest In Peace.
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Cece Dong posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2022
Dr. Patel gave me an opportunity to join his vibrant practice, to serve his diverse population of patients, and to work alongside his brilliant doctors and staff. I hope to carry on his vision of bringing world-class care to the underserved neighborhoods in NYC.
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Ebony Mitchell lit a candle
Wednesday, January 19, 2022
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I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Dr. Patel for 7years. He was more than my doctor he was my friend. From the first day I met him he was friendly and very welcoming and we had an instant bond. My heartfelt condolences goes out to his family, friends and staff at NY Opthamology. He will be missed tremendously.
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Stephanie Metz lit a candle
Tuesday, January 18, 2022
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Frank Killian posted a condolence
Monday, January 17, 2022
I first met Neil at Lenox Hill during our internship year. I can still see him walking down the hall in his loosely tied Timberland boots, scrubs and a single piece of paper in his hand with a list of his patients. He had a big smile with a hint of mischievousness. We became friends. His fun-loving attitude and positive energy were infectious. During residency he would always make an extra effort to check in on me and catch up at various academic functions and ophthalmology events. I looked up to him very much. He had a rare and remarkable gift for connecting with people which served him well. Neil knew everyone in New York. And everyone loved Neil. My deepest sympathies to the Patel family. You raised a good one. I know you are extremely proud of him.
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Girija Subramanian lit a candle
Saturday, January 15, 2022
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My heartfelt sympathies to the entire family on the loss of Neil My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time
Girija Subramanian
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Alyson lit a candle
Friday, January 14, 2022
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Neil was one of my favorite classmates at SUNY Downstate. He was both funny and smart. My deepest condolences to his family.
I will always think of him rocking his Knicks Jersey and cap.
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Dr. Mark Fromer posted a condolence
Thursday, January 13, 2022
Our deepest condolences to Dr Patels family. He was a strong, vibrant member of the eyecare community and will be deeply missed. May his passion and memory continue to live on.
-Dr . Mark Fromer and the Fromer Eye Family
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Dr. Mark Hornfeld posted a condolence
Thursday, January 13, 2022
My deepest condolences to Neil's family. He was well-respected by his peers for his skills as a doctor and surgeon. Losing him so young is a big loss to the community. He had so much more to give.
Dr. Mark Hornfeld
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Guadalupe Cosme lit a candle
Thursday, January 13, 2022
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My deepest sympathy to the Patel family. Dr. Patel was a great doctor. His bedside manner was kind, and loving. He treated his patients like family. In my time of sorrow, he was a great comfort, and support. He will be dearly missed. May he rest in peace.
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Tanya Boudakian posted a condolence
Thursday, January 13, 2022
My deepest sympathies to the Patel family on the passing of such a beautiful human being. I met Neil in high school, and his good humor and positive attitude always put a smile on my face. While we lost touch over the years, it is clear (and not at all surprising) that he touched so many lives in such a profound way. Neil, you will be missed - rest in peace, my friend.
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Thursday, January 13, 2022
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Neil was a classmate and kindred artistic spirit at Downstate. He took me under his wing in the Medical Artists Guild and he helped make my medical school experience more meaningful. He will always hold a special place in my heart and in my memories.
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Dianna & Donnette lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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My sincerest condolences to the Patel family. My mother and I are forever grateful; without him, my mom wouldn't have the gift of sight once again. May Dr. Patel rest in eternal peace. Thank you!
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Bally lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Dr. Neil was always so kind and was well respected. He was always so helpful and we always need more people like him. He will be truly missed!
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Gabriela P lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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My deepest condolences to the Patel Family . Dr.Patel was a kind and happy person i owe him my eyesight .May he rest in peace .
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Lolette posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
My most deepest condolences to the Patel Family. I worked with Dr. Patel at New York Eye and Ear. Dr. Patel was always a very caring and respectful individual. He will be greatly missed. May he rest in God’s Eternal Peace.
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Shilpa,Jayna & Rakesh lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Our entire family is saddened by the loss of our dear brother Neil. I have such fond memories of our childhood and will cherish the time we spent. Condolences to my Masi, Masaji and Sima. Jsk
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Michael Hirsch posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
Our Hearts and Prayers are with him his Family, Friends, Colleagues and Love ones. Patricia, Michael Hirsch
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Elba Nieves posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
I’ve been dreading this since I found out you were gone. I have never worked with anyone more driven than you. You, Dr. Rapp and Dr. Steinberg taught me so much and the reason why I love working in ophthalmology. You believed in me when I didn’t believe in myself and pushed me to be my best at all times. There was never a dull moment working with you, watching you thrive and grow your practice was amazing. You were truly an amazing person and the best boss I’ve ever had. This one hit very close to my heart because I was so proud of everything I learned with you! I love you and pray you can finally rest. Das it! Xo
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Anthony Panarelli posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
Neil and I did our ophthalmology residency together. I was a year ahead of him, but he quickly became one of my best friends and mentors. We both lived on the same floor and were essentially neighbors. We used try to somehow finish our morning patients so we could go run out and get sushi, or at least a bag of dried mangos. We would talk about patients, cases or just life. Even though I was a year ahead of him, if I had a tough case I needed help with, I would go to Neil. He was a generous soul who always took care others. I finished residency in the spring of 2008. My younger brother was scheduled to start his residency that following summer. I never had any concerns, because I knew Neil would take care of him as though he was his own brother. That’s person who Neil was, and I will always miss him.
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Myung Bender lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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You will be missed Neil. We will forever remember your kindness, generosity, and laughter. Thank you for everything. ~ Myung
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Patricia B lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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My condolences to the parents and all family members of Dr. Neil S Patel,
May your soul be at peace.
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Sanjay Kedhar posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
My deepest condolences to Neil's family. I first knew Neil as his attending during residency at New York Eye & Ear, but we quickly became friends. As others have said, he was kind, smart, funny and a very talented surgeon and clinician. While he certainly left his mark in service to his patients, he also left one with his staff, friends, colleagues and everyone he came in contact with. As professors, we always strive to inspire our mentees but we don't always expect to be so inspired by them. I'll miss conversations about life with Neil: he was relentlessly generous, persistent and optimistic. His successes always impressed me, but they were never a surprise. Rest in peace,
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Pamela Balbuena lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Katielynn Rodriguez lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Srinivas Kesanakurthy lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Most dynamic and smart physician with a great business mind and vision.....a rare mix.
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Kunjan N Patel lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Neil was a sincere, joyful, loving person who will be greatly missed. Deepest condolences and prayers to his family .
Kunjan Patel
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Patty Yun and family lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Deepest condolences to the Patel family. Neil was a great guy. We are shocked by the news and will always miss him.
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Amy Arentowicz lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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deepest condolences and love to the Patel family. as you already know, neil was a loving, kind and beautiful soul. i will remember his smile and laughter from sitting behind me in AP biology in high school to sharing time with him in his beautiful garden. rest in peace, my friend. i will miss you.
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Krystal Lopez lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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To hear of your passing was not only so shocking but truly saddening. Words cannot explain the gratitude I have for you in giving me the opportunity to learn about Ophthalmology with no prior experience. You were the foundation to the beginning of something I truly love doing. I cannot thank you enough for all the times you pushed me hard to do my very best and nothing less than and the times you made me cry but all in good reason. Without your “no nonsense” attitude I wouldn’t be the technician I am today. Your sarcastic sense of humor and smile really made up for the hard days and at the end there were always jokes and plenty of laughter. I wish you the upmost peace Dr. Patel and please know the impact you had on not only myself but so many!!! You will truly be missed!!!!
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Paul Johnson posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
There was no one else like Neil Patel. He was kind, caring, so smart, and an incredibly talented surgeon. We laughed together during our time as co-residents at New York Eye & Ear, and supported each other during the difficult times. He was the one who gave me the idea to set up my business the way that I did, and it has succeeded because Neil was always right. About 5 or 6 years ago, I served as an independent contractor at his practice New York Ophthalmology. I was in awe of what he was able to create in such a short period of time. His staff respected him, his patients loved him, and his colleagues loved working with him. I will be forever grateful to him, and he will live on in my heart for the rest of my life.
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Antwan Thelwell lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Dr. Patel it was an honor to get to known you. You were a brilliant individual with a brilliant mind. You encouraged me to pursue medical school. You were an amazing doctor to your patients and the medical community has lost a great doctor. It was a privilege to have gotten o known you.
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Darshana Patel lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Our deepest condolences to the family. Neil was an amazing and kind person and he will be missed.
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Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Sharing few photos of Neil Bhaiya, he will always be in our memories.
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Ted Rebholz posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
Deepest condolences to the Patel family and to all who were blessed to spend time with Neil.
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Valerie Santiago lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Sharing in your sadness as you remember Neil. What an amazing person and what a remarkable life. My deepest sympathies to the Patel family, colleagues, and friends. May the wonderful memories carry you through and bring you comfort.
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Jen lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Condolences to the Patel Family. I remembered him as a kind and fun loving doctor both as a resident and an attending surgeon. Your absence will be missed Dr. Patel.
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Rekha Patel lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Our deepest condolences to the Patel family,
Shanti Pandey Tiwari
Salil and Sharmila Tiwari
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Deepika Singh posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
My husband and I were classmates with Neil at Downstate. It was a privilege to know such a kind and brilliant person who touched so many lives. My deepest condolences to his family and close friends.
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Archana posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
Neil your loss has left all of us deeply saddened. We’re all incredibly proud of you and your achievements and more so for what a good soul you have been. It’s a huge loss for our family but you will always live in our hearts and prayers. Please accept our deepest condolences. Archana and Prashant Mehta
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The New York Eye & Ear Infirmary Ophthalmology Residency Class of 2009 is shocked and saddened at the loss of our dear friend, Neil. We would like to express our deepest condolences to the Patel family.
With his family's blessing, we have created the Neil S Patel Memorial Fund in order to establish an annually distributed scholarship for a young ophthalmologist who emulates Neil’s life and values. We hope to honor Neil’s memory by inspiring future generations of ophthalmologists with the story of his life and career.
For more information, please visit
http://www.neilpatelmemorialfund.com/
NYEEI Class of 2009
Arlene H. The, MD
Paul B. Johnson, MD
Olivia L Lee, MD
Madhavi Kurli, MD
Lior Haim, MD
Annie E. Wishna, MD
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Neil and I were co-residents at the New York Eye & Ear Infirmary. After graduation, we both moved to southern California for our respective fellowships. Even though we had lived and worked together during residency, it was that fellowship year in which we became close friends. In typical "work hard play hard" fashion, Neil worked all week and then drove up to LA every Friday and Saturday night when he wasn't on call. I'll never forget the fun times we had- our 2010 trips to Miami, San Diego and Las Vegas. Most of all, I will never forget what lengths Neil was willing to go to for me when I was going through hard times. I am grateful to have known Neil and have him teach me the meaning of forgiveness and friendship.
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Samantha Wong lit a candle
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
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Wow this feels so unreal. Im so grateful to be able to be in your life for almost 5 years working in your practice and been your scribe. Since the beginning you never stopped surprising me, that day you gave me the opportunity to go with you to the OR i will never forget. Such an amazing surgeon and on top great rapper lol Your playlist was full of "trap" music while doing your 3 mins cataract surgery's. You was such a risk taker and thats what made you, YOU. All those complicated surgery's that probably no one would have never touch you did and I felt in some cases you did magic. Despite the amazing achievements you did throughout your life, your personality and how humble you was with everyone has had such an impact in many like myself. I have never seen and probably will never see a boss / CEO like you were to all your employee. So many laugher throughout all this years and Im glad to be able to have such great memories with you. The ones that weren't recorded will always be in my heart. In a few occasions you mention how I was the daughter you never had and to me that meant a lot. Thank you for everything you did for me, I wish I would have thank you more in person. I hope you knew you already impacted the world with your service and your hard work and dedication will pay off forever. May you rest in peace.
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Nita Mehta lit a candle
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
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We extend our deepest condolences to Mr. and Mrs. Patel and family in this time of grief. Neil will live in the hearts of everyone who knew him. He touched so many lives with the great work he did. We will remember him fondly especially his beautiful smile. Om shanti shanti shanti.
Nita Mehta, Manuben Mehta, and Anilbhai Mehta
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Domingo Nunez posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
My condolences to the Patel family.
It’s been years since I last saw Neil but I shall never forget his joy for life and humanity.
His smile could warm the coldest heart.
Rest in everlasting peace Neil!
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My deepest condolences to Mr and Mrs Patel and family. I never took for granted Neil's words to me about his love and admiration for his mother's influence throughout his life which he spoke of many times to me as I was facing some challenges as a mother to offer me his support and encouragement. I met Dr Patel at Crystal Run. It was there that he told me of his plans for the future regarding his own practice, for me to look him up when I was ready to return to work and I'd always have a job with him. Turns out I made my career with him. NEIL HAS BEEN MY FRIEND for 9 years. He always had a place for me. The best of my resume is because of him. In everything he planned, the words I or me never came out of his mouth, it was always WE and OUR. Dr Patel, you always had a clear vision of what your future would be, you always wanted those around you to be part of it. It was never we work for you but WITH YOU, and trust me when I say, we love you for that. I never met a man like you who just really and truly looked at those who worked with you as your family, who took it personally when one left , wanted to know why, so you could better yourself, so people wanted to stay. You are amazing in every way and will be so missed. I know it is right and just to believe you are in your forever home, just wish you didn't have to go so soon.
Until we meet again, we will make you proud. NYOPH all the wayyyy
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Deepest condolences to the Patel family. I was incredibly saddened to hear about this. Neil and I were fellows together during our Retina training. He was a great guy and acted like a big brother to me during our training together. I remember his warm laugh and great sense of humor. He was very caring for patients, and a great surgeon. He helped save the vision of many, many patients. Thank you for the great memories and laughs, my friend. May you rest in peace.
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Incredibly sad to hear the news of Neil’s sudden tragic passing. Condolences to his family, close friends and co-workers… I did business with Neil for many years repping devices he used on his surgical patients… but saw Neil as so much more than an extremely gifted surgeon and astute clinician. Neil, to me, was one of the most interesting guys in the world …with diverse interests like exotic travel, chess, fine cooking/dining, surfing, and entrepreneurship..I’ve never seen a surgeon build such a busy thriving practice in just a few years..His success was created by virtue of his compassionate nature, warm personality, and passion providing quality eyecare in areas of NYC that were historically underserved. His empathy and ambition were second to none, and his goal to help as many people in the community regain their vision was inspiring. He was kind enough to invite me to his office holiday party a couple years ago where i snapped this photo of him toasting his growing work family..his pride in his NYOPH team was palpable. We are all heartbroken for our loss and pray for Neil, and all who loved him. Rest In Peace ..
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Noelle Sun posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
Dr. Patel was truly one of the smartest, most compassionate and inspirational people I have ever met. Each time I interacted with him he was always a fully engaged listener whi showed genuine interest and concern in what I had to say; he often went out of his way to show me interesting cases. He was such an amazing person to everyone who knew him, an incredible man who built NYOPH as a cohesive organization more than a company to serve underserved of New York City, a huge loss to the ophthalmology community. You will always be an inspiration to us all
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Sam Nouri posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
My deepest condolences and sympathy to the Patel family. Neil was a great friend to me over 30 years from high school at WHRHS to college at Columbia and then life in NYC and California. He was so intelligent, dedicated, creative, friendly, welcoming, and always such a pleasure to be around. I will always vividly remember his infectious laugh and smile. He was truly a great man and his early departure from this world has left a tremendous void. I'm so deeply saddened that he's no longer with us, but so deeply grateful for all the memories that we shared that I will always remember so fondly. Rest in peace, brother.
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My Condolences to the Patel Family
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I was Neil's co-resident during residency. He was my friend and family through residency and beyond. He was a rock for many of us and helped us innumerable times to get through stressful situations with his kindness and infectious laughter. I do not have any memories of my life as a resident without Neil in it...always laughing and lighting up the room. We started solo practices at the same time but in 2 different states and he was always there to support and encourage me. He visited me in AZ 2 years ago and he had not changed one bit. He was as charming and kind as ever. Neil, you will be missed immensely but you will always live on in our hearts and memories. You were a rare gem Neil and my life is a better one for having known you.
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anthony Pisacano,MD posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
It is with great sorrow that I learned of Dr. Patel's passing. As a fellow eye surgeon I knew hims as a superb multi talented doctor who earned the respect of his peers and the love of his patients. The Bronx and the world for that matter will not be the same without Neil Patel, MD
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Manjula patel posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
Neil was very kind hearted person. His mother Aruna was from Kampala and we stayed in same place and spent our childhood together. He was just like his mother very helpful. Had a good education and very active. We met in his sister wedding and after a long time too . He recognized me right away and asked about my brother and my family. We will miss you Neil god bless your soul.
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Beata P posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
My deepest condolences to the Patel Family.
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Mila Corrao posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
My sincere condolences to friends and Family
Dr.Patel was passionate and caring about his work and patients.
This is a great loss to society.
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Yash posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
Great person. Had worked with him for about a year , while he was working as an ophthalmologist in Middletown NY. Yash Patel.
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Shilpa Posted Jan 11, 2022 at 10:40 AM
Neilbhai brought a light wherever he was with his beautiful smile.I have only met him a handful of times but feel like I know all about his life as a child.My MIL regaled me with stories of him & Simaben & we have so many pics of them when they stayed in London.She & our whole family was so proud of him & am glad his nephews & nieces here got to know him in his last trip here.God Bless his soul & may he be in loving peace.Ohm Shanti
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I am shocked and very saddened to hear of Neil’s passing. What a sweet man! He will be missed by all who knew him. I had the great pleasure to teach him as a resident at the New York Eye & Ear Infirmary. An incredible loss. My sincerest condolences to his family. May his memory be a blessing.
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I texted you immediately when I heard of you passing, I hoped that it wasn’t true, that they were mistaking and it was someone else. I am so sorry that we have lost you in our medical community. You will be missed, thank you for being so accessible for referrals, questions and chats about what’s going on professionally and personally. I was so looking forward to growing older and telling patients “You’re in good hands I’ve been referring to him for 30 years!” Gone too soon, I’m sorry for your family that grieves you.
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I will miss you my friend. Neil and I first met at Downstate during medical school, then reconnected at our first practice in crystal run and then again in nyc when we left that practice. It seems that you were meant to be in my life. Neil was an amazing human being who connected with a lot of souls and was full of life. You have a lot of friends who will always miss you and love you! RIP
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I honestly can't begin to put into words how I feel about you no longer being here with us. 7 years of working by your side and we were supossed to start again, we were supossed to be joking around and working again and now you are gone. We had plans after new years to start over and you wrote to me and told me you were so happy and I agreed because so was I. You gave me an opportunity to work with you after I decided to move back to NY from Dom.Rep and I had zero medical experience. I will never forget my job interview because back then It was the start of it all and you personally sat and interviewed me. You asked me if I thought I would be able to handle a job in the medical field, you warned me that in no time you would grow into a busy practice and you didn't want to waste time training someone that was not sure if they would be up for the entire ride. You challenged me and said "If you work hard and become an asset to my practice and I promise you that you will get everything you deserve and rather than you needing this job I would need you". You kept teaching me and helping me grow not just in the field but as a person in general. You would always tell me how you knew you were never meant to work for anyone because your mouth would get you in trouble, you were born to lead. You would look at me scribing for you with 3 ipads and brag about it to people because you were so proud of me and of the growth that you had seen. Whenever you were having a bad day the girls would always send me to tell you whatever they needed you to know and I was never scared to approach you because we just got along and understood each other and the way we worked. You trusted me with so much. You always laughed and said you were my kids godfather and even during the pandemic you randomly would write to me to make sure we had everything we needed. You made such a huge impact in my life and I'm not sure that you even understood how huge it was. I looked at you with so much admiration and respect because you will put in the work consistently to get to where you were at right now. I would ask you how would you handle so much? How would we divide Dr. Patel between all offices because your patients only wanted you el Doctoi like they would tell you, you would look at me and say this is my life this is what I love to do I have no time for anything else I will rest when it's my time to go and it's so hard to swallow this pill and believe that you no longer are a phone call or text away. I am truly thankful that I had told you multiple times in life how grateful I was for everything and all you ever helped me with or did for me. I will always remember our lunches and birthdays and inside jokes. I will forever be grateful to have met such a great person. I will miss you and working with you. Now you can finally rest. You told me you would never retire but this is not what I had in mind. I am still in shock and I will always remember you with great admiration and love. Thank you for being a part of my life. May your soul rest in peace...
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Vincente Calderón Posted Jan 11, 2022 at 8:14 AM
Beautiful tribute, sounds exactly like the guy I remember
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Being a fellow Columbian, rower, and NYC-trained Ophthalmologist, I had known Neil since he came to Morningside Heights campus in 1994 as a freshman. I was a junior at Columbia College, and remember Neil as one of the nicest guys on the crew team, who always worked hard to achieve his academic and athletic goals. Back in the day, we even rowed in the same boat a handful of times. It was interesting to see our common path over time, and then years later see him professionally at our national Eye meetings. Despite the challenges a career in medicine brings, Neil always kept his gentle and outgoing demeanor and was well-liked by his colleagues. He will certainly be sorely missed by his friends, family, and patients he cared for over the years. Lighting a Light Blue candle in honor of a friend and fellow Columbia Lion, and sending deepest sympathies to his loving family.
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Dear Neil, I still can’t believe it. I don’t know that I ever will. You were a great friend that gave more of himself than he asked in return. Anthony, you and I made a pact early in Med school to support each other. I know in my heart that you will still be supporting us even though you are gone. I’ll see you on the other side brother. Sincerely, Mike Sorace
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Richard Wu posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
Neil was not only an amazing ophthalmologist, but also a great friend and amazing person. Patrick and I are extremely saddened by this. We offer our most sincere condolences to his family.
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Robert Jaffee,M.D. posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
I worked with Dr. Patel when he was with Crystal Run in Middletown, New York. He was a person I came to admire not only for his proficiency in ophthalmology but also for his honesty and warm personality. I remember many a times we laughed together and many a time he enlightened me on an aspect of his specialty of retina. He is gone too soon and it will be a great loss for his family and his patients present and future who will not be able to avail themselves of his expertise. I can only add that he rest in peace.
Robert Jaffee,M.D.
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Milady Brito lit a candle
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Dr. Patel, is hard to believe that you are no longer with us. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to work in the medical field and thank you for giving me the opportunity to learn about the amazing world of ophthalmology. The best student learning dominican slangs such as montame, que lo que y dame luz!! you will be forever remembered. Rest In peace.
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Dear Neil, I am still coming to terms with the realization that you are no longer here. I am glad we had that time 3 years ago in London to spend sometime and hang out and get to know one another again. I do remember when I was young and you being a big brother/bully :) either when you visited us in Toronto or when we came to New Jersey. I do hope you're at peace now listening to some music with some plants in heaven. I will definitely miss you and JSK. Cousin Sach
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Hasna Ansari posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
I was so fortunate to have Neil as a friend in medical school. He was one of the kindest and inspiring people I’ve met. My condolences for your loss.
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Thank you for giving me a chance to start in the medical field being i was so young with no experience to offer , always bothering me about being the baby in the clinic and not letting me drink in the Christmas party. You will be missed
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Dr Patel was such an amazing person, always believing in others and pushing them to be the best that they can be. Im truly hurt by news and would like to send my condolences to the Patel family.
I’m grateful for all the opportunities he gave me in this company; and I am honored to have been his scribe and had those moments when we just talked about random things especially puppies. He was also very smart and yet very humble about everything and that was something that made him Neil. I’m glad to have worked with him this past year and I am thankful for pushing to be my best self
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Steve Agostinacchio posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
Neil and I were always wheeling and dealing with equipment and with that came great trust and friendship. You were always a gentlemen and a blast to be around. Missing u my man. I know I’ll see you on the other side. -Stevie Hardware
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Dr.Patel, I will never forget you. And that is not only because you made me cry on more than one occasion. Lol. But because you’ve given me one of the most important lessons in life; Detail matters. You pushed me to be the best i can be, to be observant, to not make any mistakes. You took a chance on me when you hired me with no medical experience. After just one year of working with you I can honestly say you were an inspiration to anyone who knew you, you were bright, you were funny, and most of all you believed in everyone who was on your team. You believed in us more than we believed in ourselves, and you were hard on us. I wish i got the chance to tell you how much i appreciate everything you’ve showed me and i wasn’t writing this letter. We love you! - your little pony , Megan and Sundance
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Jack Pula posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
I went to medical school with Neil and had not seen him in many years. He was always kind, generous, warm, accepting and extremely bright but never showy about his smarts. He was a friend. He was also an artist who led the medical student artist guild, convincing me and other students to submit our work for a student publication. He inspired. Neil was a shining star and brightened lives for so many. I am sad he is gone far too soon and grateful to have know him. I wish peace and comfort for his family in this time of grief. -Jack Pula. SUNY Downstate ‘05
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My condolences to his family. I worked with Dr. Patel 3 yrs and he was a great boss, he alway push me to do better and learn new things. He would alway make us laugh in the office and alway have jokes. I still can’t believe he is gone .. May he Rest In Peace.
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Sunny Bhathela posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
My deepest condolences to the friends and family of Dr. Neil Patel. Dr. Patel was always a supportive colleague and mentored me when I first started working in the underserved area of the South Bronx. I found comfort knowing a professional and highly skilled retinal surgeon was just down the street from me and was a welcoming referral site. Dr. Patel would invite me to his holiday parties and I could tell his staff really looked up to his leadership. He sent our office gift baskets during the holiday season which our staff all appreciated. He was a warm and positive person to be around. He treated his colleagues with respect and always had a fun spirit. Dr. Patel reached out to me one month before his passing with very kind words that I will always remember him by. He will surely be missed and the South Bronx eye care community will not be the same without him.
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Ned Berkowitz posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
I worked with Dr Patel in the OR as a rep for the company whose products he used during surgeries. His family should know he was an extremely skilled and knowledgeable surgeon, an observation I made about him after my first time joining him in the OR. Then, he’d nonchalantly speak fluent Spanish to his patients and grab a slice of pizza. Just a solid and insanely bright and talented physician. My deepest condolences.
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Genesis Ramirez posted a condolence
Monday, January 10, 2022
Sending my most heartfelt condolences to his family. I will always cherish the opportunity of meeting such a wonderful soul. Not too long ago I thanked him for being a great example of leadership and compassion. Dr. Neil Patel, you will always be remembered!
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My condolences to his family. I can’t even process the fact that he’s gone, full of life, successful and with so many goals wanting to achieve even though he was half way there, he always said he was my dad. I will never forget the good times we all spent together, can’t even count how many times I said I couldn’t work with him anymore because he drives me nuts but now he isn’t here and isn’t coming back and I wish I can go back in time and tell him how much I appreciate everything he did for me and thought me in 7 years . May god have him in a better place and may his soul Rest In Peace.
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My condolences to the whole family. Dr. Patel was an Amazing person and a great Doctor.
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My condolences to Dr.Patel’s family, friends and staff. Dr. Patel was really one of a kind and i am truly saddened by his loss. Dr. Patel, thank you for all you have done for your staff and patients, from the uplifting talks to the knowledge you have taught us and your many jokes that have put bright smiles on our faces to get through our days. You will forever be in our hearts, “dasssss itttt!”
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The news of Dr. Patel’s death is tragic beyond comprehension. Neil had an impact on more lives than he was ever aware, but I truly hope he knew how deeply and positively he affected mine. Neil took me under his wing and made me a better doctor, for which I will be grateful the rest of my life. It was the joy of my professional career to work alongside Neil and to help him realize his dream of creating his empire. With offices in all corners of NYC, I can assuredly say that his dream came true.
We had our moments of disagreement, as two brothers would, but it was only because I loved him like family. He was generous, provided outstanding health care to the underserved, took on challenging cases that other doctors avoided, and was a constant educator. Neil‘s teachings will stay with me forever as I use his exact words to counsel my patients or whenever I refer a patient for an FA and Avastin. I will remember the good times with Neil with every mention of plátano or mangú, every time I hear a song from his personally-DJ’ed work playlist, or every time anyone says “das it!”
Neil, now that you finally have the time to relax, I hope you are playing chess with the greats and surfing bigger waves than you ever dreamed. I will miss you deeply, Papi; you are loved forever.
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Neil was an amazing and wonderful person . He was a consultant to my company and a great friend . I had the pleasure of working with him many times . Neil was so charismatic and everyone respected him . He had an incredible ability to speak and relate to anyone . He supported everyone around him and loved his work . He taught me to only compete with yourself, and that hustle brings luck . Neil the world is going to miss you and so will I . Love & Respect,
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Anthony Corcoran Posted Jan 10, 2022 at 12:09 PM
Neil - the last time we hung out - at one of his Menudo Chef's Table events, which were in short amazing. He worked so hard to ensure everything was perfect. I still have the ice cream socks he gave every guest and will continue to wear them with pride and remember the marigold ice cream (yummy) he helped inspire. The second picture has his team from the Chef's Table with my wife and me. I think he really enjoyed those as did everyone who attended.
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Diana Kochan posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
My condolences to the family and friends of Neal. He was a stellar student in High School and I am not surprised to see how successful he became. May he rest in peace.
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Papia Sen posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
My deepest condolences to Neil's family and close friends. I knew him from medical school. He was a brilliant and kind soul. I can't believe that he is gone. Rest in peace Neil. - Papia Sen
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Simeon Lauer, MD posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Neil was a deeply respected and highly cherished colleague. His sudden departure leaves an enormous, incomprehensible void in our ophthalmic community. Neil was modest and soft spoken, but immeasurably talented. He dedicated himself to his patients, many of whom depended on his efforts to help them overcome cultural barriers, that otherwise limited their access to care. There is no way to express in words the legacy he leaves behind and how much he will be missed.
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Karen posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
I have two memories of Neil permanently ingrained in my mind. The first was in high school, sitting behind him in Calculus. He would turn around and tell me excitedly that he had figured out how to prove or derive something related to e (the mathematical constant). That's the first time I realized Neil was super smart, and not just the goof with the charming, mischievous grin! The second was in college, stopping by to see Neil at his first crew race. We were all freshmen, and still nervous/excited about college and the future. I remember meeting Mr. and Mrs. Patel there as well. My thoughts are with you, Mr. and Mrs. Patel, with Sima, and the rest of Neil's family and close friends.
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Ezra Freedman posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Neil, my time at Columbia was so enriched by your presence there. I was lucky to be your floormate freshman year and to become your friend. It sounds like you made an amazing career as a doctor and touched many people with your smarts, humor and empathy. I’m sorry your time ended so soon. I send my love and condolences to your family and friends.
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Joe Panarelli posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Neil was a big brother to so many of us in residency. Even on the toughest of days, he always found ways to make us all laugh. Will never forget the good times we shared. You will missed but never forgotten!
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Elizabeth Arbuckle posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
I send my deepest condolences to Neil’s family. I knew Neil at Columbia and he will always have a special place in my heart. Neil pursued his passions and purpose with generosity and intention. And he touched many. I send thoughts of comfort during this difficult time.
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Andrea Jue posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Bookworm, chess player, restauranteur, gardener, surfer, bad ass surgeon, Boss. You were all these things and you excelled at it all. 100% was not good enough, you always gave 1000%.
I remember your infectious laugh, your generous spirit, your enduring friendship. You are not gone. You live in the hearts and memories of your many family, friends, colleagues and patients. We miss you Neil.
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Valeria Rubinstein posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
I’ve known Neil since he was an ophthalmology resident. His humor and laughter would light up a room and everyone in it. I am so sad that he’s gone. My deepest condolences to his family. He will be missed. Rest In Peace Neil.
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My deepest condolences to Neil's family. I enoyed our friendship since he came to work with me as a physics student in Columbia and then as a resident and most recently as a colleague. Always warm, friendly, and funny. A good soul to brighten any occasion.
all of his family at New York Eye and Ear Infirmary will miss his laughter and good cheer. Peace, Brother.
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Phoebe Pan posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Thank you for being my fierce leader, warm mentor, and goofy friend. You are the best boss I ever had, and no one will ever come close to being what you have been for me. I will miss all our deep talks about art and life. I miss being silly with you -- we always acted like children whenever we could. You were the best of us. I can only hope to aspire to your kindness and empathy.
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Nikul Patel posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, January 9, 2022
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It is hard to still comprehend that Dr. Neil has left us. As a cousin, I always and will continue to brag about his passion and accomplishments. HE must have different plans for Neil. May the ALMIGHTLY shower him with his choicest blessings and give the courage to the family members to withstand this loss. Jai Swaminarayan.
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Ravi lit a candle
Sunday, January 9, 2022
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My condolences to Neil's family. My wife and I were classmates with him during medical school. We both remember his warm smile and calm demeanor. Our thoughts are with his family during this incredibly difficult time.
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Arusha Gupta lit a candle
Sunday, January 9, 2022
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I'm so incredibly sad to know of his passing, I will always remember Neil's infectious smile, he lit up the room with his humor and wit wherever he went. We were residents together and I'm glad I got to spend that time with him. I hope he finds peace on the other side. My heartfelt condolences to the family, he left us way too early.
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Sunday, January 9, 2022
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Valerie Elmalem lit a candle
Sunday, January 9, 2022
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Sending my condolences to the family and close friends of Neil. We were med school classmates and shared ophthalmology patients. I enjoyed his jokes and sarcasm. Rest In Peace.
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Jorge Palacios posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Dr. Patel: may you rest in peace. Your humanity had no bounds and you treatesd everyone with dignity and respect. Thank you for leaving us with your humble example. My 93 year mother prays for you.
Jorge Palacios
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Anthony Corcoran posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Neil Patel RIP brother. Will miss you. I hope you are at peace. Will miss that smile, your chuckle and your generous nature. We were “the triad”…you, me and Mike Sorace. We rocked Med School and had some fun doing it. I wouldn’t be me today without you. I am tremendously saddened, shocked, confused and in disbelief.
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Claire lit a candle
Sunday, January 9, 2022
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Dr.Patel, you are extremely serious and rigorous about your work, and even discuss your work at mealtimes. Every time I read your story posted on Ins, you are always watching the same scenery and listening to soothing music. This should be a way for you to relax yourself. I hope you have no pain or trouble on the other side of the world. Remember the way you smile when you take off your mask.
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Jai Parekh posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
We were so shocked by Neil’s early departure from Earth; he was a really good friend and we’ve known each other since our NYEEI days. He was special and talented. My little brother, I will miss you so much! You impacted so many in too short of time. God bless your family and friends/pts that will always cherish you. JSK!—Jai
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Shirley Infante lit a candle
Sunday, January 9, 2022
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Dr Patel,
Your loss is a huge one. Your presence, your smile, your jokes, your laughter will be missed. The way you made it a point to connect with every single one of your patients, learning their language and funny sayings to keep them at ease was a special gift that I admired. Thank you for all the advice, all the help and encouragement throughout all these years and for being such an amazing person I not only considered a colleague but a friend. You will never be forgotten.
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Hema Patel posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Neilbhai.you really live your life like a candle and gave lot of people light.you depart so soon.but you will be always live with us.will miss you.may your soul rest in peace
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Javed Badshah lit a candle
Sunday, January 9, 2022
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A friend, a mentor, a visionary, a true leader but most importantly a great human being. I don't think I can put in words how much we will be missing you.
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brenda bocio posted a condolence
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Dr.Patel, my condolences to your family, close friends and the whole NYOPH staff. Thanks for always being very generous & thanks for treating my grandmother with the best eyecare. You’ll be missed. Praying for your love ones during this difficult time. May your soul rest in peace.
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Maayan uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, January 8, 2022
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Neil had a big heart, incredible energy, and so much love to give. He knew how to enjoy every moment. His humor and laughter will be missed.
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Narendra B Patel lit a candle
Saturday, January 8, 2022
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We as Indian community.....abroad...big lost..of very inspiring talented and beloved gentlemen...Dr. Nil Patel..you made your own chair ..and No one can reach to get your place buddy
May Maharaj will ..give..unlimited happiness...of your choice
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Irish Portuguez lit a candle
Saturday, January 8, 2022
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Dr. Patel, I can't Thank you enough for the opportunity that you have given to me to work in your Manhattan location. We might have not worked as often, I am very proud to be working for you and in your company. You're for sure will be missed. Your legacy will remain forever. I will take your work tips with me along my journey in my nursing career. May your soul rest in peace as I will continue to pray for your entire family and friends for strength in these tough times. Thank you for the time spent working with you. Much love and respect.-- Irish P. of NYOPH in Manhattan
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Heena mehta uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, January 8, 2022
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Neil! Why did you leave us so soon! This is not supposed to be happening. You have so much to offer in life. You’re truly remarkable and one of a kind. Our entire Patel and Mehta family are mourning your loss.
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Saturday, January 8, 2022
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